- HARMONY – Their parents should not have unresolved and destructive conflict in front of them.
- LOVE – They wish to be treated with the same affection as other children in the family.
- HONESTY – They do not want to be lied to.
- ACCEPTANCE – They desire mutual tolerance from both parents.
- PARENTS TO LIKE THEIR FRIENDS – They want their friends to be welcomed into their home.
- CLOSENESS – They desire comradeship with their parents.
- PARENTS TO PAY ATTENTION TO THEM – and to answer their questions.
- CONSIDERATION FROM THEIR PARENTS – not to be embarrassed or punished in front of friends.
- POSITIVE SUPPORT – They want parents to concentrate on their good qualities rather than their weaknesses.
- CONSISTENCY – They want parents to be consistent in their efficiencies and moods.
The Life Lesson: All children want respect, love and consideration.